How To Write Smokin' Hot Smut. I highly recommend reading it. She makes some excellent points and, in typical Nauti style, dispenses some great advice with flare and humor. It was definately interesting for me to compare notes with her and see how her process and mine are similar and different.
I left a very long comment in response to her post and she was kind enough to write as detailed a reply back to me. Not to mention, she said this:
I'm so glad you came by to compare notes -- thanks for your enlightening input! Anyone looking for further insight on how to write erotica should reference your work, you're very good at it.
I peed in my pants a little! What an awesome endorsement. *is proud*